**Hello......!! Assalamu Alaikum/Adab my friend of [Steem Space](https://steemit.com/created/hive-174315) community, I am @kibreay001 speaking from Bangladesh** ![1000176904.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmbp9MnVGo3aa7EGCZKvP1nNMKL8trViXDSktM9vLiX8hF/1000176904.jpg)

Hello all my Steemit friends, I hope you are all doing well. I am here again to share a new story with you today. The main topic of my story today is The story of my expatriate friend's suffering. I stayed in Singapore for about six months. Since I was in Singapore for 6 months, I had a room partner friend there. My friend only works outside and comes to the room but never comes out of the room. I suddenly asked my friend one day, why do you live like this? If you stay like this, expatriates suffer a lot. I told my friend that you should go out, roam around, be happy and talk to everyone at home, enjoy your expatriate life like this. But my friend told me that expatriate life is very difficult for every boy, they come to fulfill their dreams, so they sacrifice their own dreams and fulfill their family's dreams.

One day I told my expatriate friend that let's go somewhere together. My friend smiled and told me about his heartache. He said that I am coming to expatriate with a loan of about four lakh taka, my salary is not very much. I have to support about 3 families. I leave my parents one family there, my wife and children there, I have a family there and here I am coming here with my own family. Again he said that I am a victim of the biggest reality. I am the eldest child of my family. I have another younger sister at home and all her responsibilities are on my shoulders, starting from getting her married. In this way, so much hardship is imposed on the eldest child and expatriates of every family. In fact, I started to understand the words of my friend and started thinking about the words a lot myself. In fact, I believed the words he said very much at that time. I kept believing that every person tries to keep his family happy with hardship in expatriate life.

Expatriates live their lives abroad with a lot of hardship but their families never want to accept these words. In fact, no one ever understands the hardships of expatriates, they live their lives abroad with a lot of hardship and tension. In the meantime, every member of the family thinks of expatriates as just money machines, as their families keep telling them to send more and more money every month. I have seen my various friends who have spent a few years abroad and have not done anything for themselves, so I will give a message through today's post that those who are abroad must definitely save at least a little for themselves every month and save for the future, then your life will be beautiful. Thank you all.